By Laura Lyn (www.angelreader.net) is a Psychic & Past Life Regression Expert.
As in every profession, there are extremely credible & not so credible individuals. How can you be sure you are seeking help from a legitimate psychic who has your best interests at heart? Follow these tips:
1) Ask around! Do you have any friends or family who has had an experience with a personal medium? Ask them how they felt about it at the time and if it was it a positive experience. Your friends know you and they would not send you to see a movie you wouldn’t like nor would they send you to someone they didn’t trust.
2). Many mediums are online now bu,t don’t just look at the website they present. Do your research! Google their name and see what comes up. Has anyone reviewed them before? Have they published any other works online? Have they done any charity work? Some mediums even have videos of them channeling on youtube.com and vimeo.com
3) Trust your instincts! If something doesn’t feel right, keep looking! You will find a medium that is right for you. Many people are tapping into other realms these days. Never feel rushed or pressured to take the first person that comes along. Feeling comfortable is key to any good reading, for both the medium and the client.
4) Know the signs. Does the medium seem to be leading you on? Dangling a carrot in front of a string? There are scam artists out there that will tell you what you want to hear right until the end of your time together and insist there is a message you have to come back to hear. Don’t believe them! A doctor would not keep you waiting for the results of a blood test if they were holding the envelope and a medium should not withhold a message from the other side (there are circumstances where the message may be unclear but you will be able to feel the difference- you will feel under pressure in one and not the other).
5) Mediums do not have control over what messages they receive and which spirits they talk too. Yes, if a loved one has passed on and they are watching over you they will in all likelihood come forward to communicate their feeling before passing on but sometimes a relative we’ve never met has attached themselves to us and they would like to give us a message. The good medium will not try to push or pull the channeling session in one direction. Sometimes we want to be told things we want to hear and will try to ask questions that will lead us to the answers we want. An unscrupulous medium who just wants to be paid for their session will tell you what you want to hear. A gifted medium will tell you the truth and may tell you things that will surprise you or are unexpected.
The most important telling will come from your own inner voice and your own heart. Let your own intuition be the guide!